In love, there will always be a person who can not control want to pay a lot for each other, but often the one who is injured is the one who pays more. A relationship can always be maintained, relying on the efforts of both sides. If a girl in love more and more love each other, the man will gradually feel that this is what you should do. Will more and more do not cherish your good to him, wear out the love for you. But you are deep in it, and can never leave him. This is because you do six things wrong, so that he slowly become not love you.
Heavy color and light friends
The most taboo to talk about love is to emphasize sex over friends, we must know that friendship is an indispensable part of a person’s life relationship. If your good sister invites you to go out with her, you tell her that she is not available, and the reason is that you want to spend time with your boyfriend. Then as time goes by, your best sister will not initiate a date with you. She will stay away from you because your focus is already all on your boyfriend. When your boyfriend knows that you are all love and no friendship, he will realize that you will put all your focus on him. He’ll take it for granted that you can’t live without him.
Take care of him all the time
To love someone is to learn to grow with them and become better people together. When you pamper your boyfriend like a mother, such as taking care of everything for him, worrying about him, taking care of him in every way, and giving him unlimited love. Even some work troubles and some money problems you will take the initiative to solve for him. He will feel that he does not need to pay anything in this relationship, you can let you take the initiative to help him deal with anything.
Tolerating his bad temper unconditionally
You have to remember that you are not a punching bag, nor are you a sandbag to be savaged at will. In the face of the pressure of the troubles in your life, he vent all the bad feelings on you, even if his attitude towards you again, even bad language, move feet, you bear in silence, do not say a word. This is you spoil your dignity, so that he does not know how to cherish you. Unconditionally tolerate each other’s bad temper, and do not tell him that it is not right and to let him correct. This will not only make him love you less and less, but may also make him intensify his domestic violence behavior towards you.
Accede to his unreasonable demands
Anyone who is faced with a request needs to have a clear boundary and inform the other person whether it is against the rules or offends you in order for them to respect you. This is also true when dealing with demands from your partner. For example, if you and your partner are already living together, the two of you should share the little things in life. Let him be in charge of grocery shopping and picking out fruits and you be in charge of cooking and preparing fruit salads. Or it’s okay for the two of you to swap identities. This will make the other person feel the warmth of living with you, so that the two people can keep the love fresh and go on together. If you completely agree with each other to let you take all the requirements alone, then don’t blame each other for not loving you, after all, you really have no bottom line!
Allow him to propose excessive sexual ideas
Sweet love comes with pleasurable sex, of course, but a healthy sexual relationship should be one in which partners respect each other and don’t come up with over-the-top sexual ideas. If you accept his over-the-top sexual ideas, such as over-the-top BDSM or multiple sexual encounters with others, then he will feel that you are a toy that he can treat as he pleases, not a partner. When your partner asks you for too much sex, you shouldn’t have to think about whether refusing him will make him not love you. Instead, you should just leave him. At least you can use the Rose Vibrator on your own to take care of all your physical needs instead of hurting yourself to fulfill his kinky ideas.
He feels in control of you.
The most important thing in a fight is for both parties to communicate their problems and work together to figure out how to solve them. If you have a fight, you always say you want to break up, but every time, you first bow your head and admit your fault, and finally take the initiative to go back to him. This will make him feel that no matter what, you will not leave him, the mouth has been said to break up, but also not afraid of you really leave. He will feel that he has taken control of you, you have been inseparable from him. Even if he doesn’t love you anymore, he won’t be hurt in any way.
Conclusion
Every girl should have her own bottom line to love and care for your object, and use the right attitude to run a love. This will make you and your date like each other all the time and walk on the road of happiness all the time. If you have the above several bad phenomena, you must adjust in time. Otherwise, when you find that the other person is less and less in love with you, a lot of things have changed and it is hard to salvage.
